What's hard is when there is a pattern of failure, and I see that, in my past, and judge myself negatively. A similar thing happens with people outside of myself. Using that "mental filter" in a negative way can be harmful. |
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You can do what you want to do, accomplish what you want to accomplish, attain any reasonable objective you may have in mind - not all of a sudden, perhaps not in one swift and sweeping act of achievement - but you can do it gradually, day by day and play by play, if you want to do it, if you work to do it, over a sufficiently long period of time. - William E. Holler |