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hello mindy thankyou for your message. i have been to the doctors and got some meds (zoloft 50mg). you are so right, i cant let this illness ruin my life, i no i have to face my fears and go back to work but i am scared. i have had a really good day today, no panic attacks hardly anxious at all so that has made me feel so much better and more confident to go back to work. i am just worried about what my collegues will think, i work in a busy travel call centre and the people are fab but i hate the thought that they all know and may act different around me. any way hopefully i will go back on thursday, i will let you know how i get on. bye toni
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I really am no body to give advice to you. But since you asked I guess it€™s okay. Let me tell you about my self first off. I have a full time job as an office manager two kids, an ex-husband soon to be that€™s one of Bla bla bla witnesses and a lot of stress and anxiety plus OCDß (I think). The last thing you want to do is let this get the best of you. Don€™t RUN FROM IT. Seek help get on some medication for now and stick it out. You can do it, it sucks but you can do it. I have enough of my own issues and I have stuck with it for this long and trust me it€™s been hard. Everyday I face something new everyday it€™s a different pain here or there everyday I worry worry worry about nothing but in my own head it€™s something. Everyday I worry about something new it could be my health my thoughts my bills me thinking that my boss doesn€™t like to everything under the sun. Stick with it use this web site as a clutch go see your doctor ASAP and try to get help before you slip into that dark hole. I€™ve been there and the only person I have realized that helped me out was my self and my sister. Do you have anyone that you can to talk to relate your feelings to? If so or maybe if not find someone anyone or just count on us to help you along. Best wishes, Mindy
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Hi Toni, Sorry to hear that you are not feeling too good. It is a good thing that you are not going back to work yet if you are not up to it as it could set you back again. I am still doing okay at work, it is just everything else that I cant cope with. Work keeps me busy and kind of takes my mind of my panic attacks (until I think about them that is). I hope we can help each other get through this awful time. Keep in touch Ann
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hello ann, yes i am currently off sick and getting paid, i am going to hand in my notice because i cannot face going back and i no its going to take me a long time to get better. i have been working part time for about 3 years so hopefully i should get incapacity, i live in east sussex i have 2 boys and my husband works full time, i really hope i can claim some sort of money because this just adds to the pressure, i feel so bad that if i dont return to work i cant earn any money, however if i do go back to work i wont be able to cope as i am not ready. i have a had a rough day so far, i feel so alone and sad. i had a good start to the day cut the lawn and cleaned the house, i went out with my children to the park and came over all weird, i just felt funny, nothing seemed reel, i had no emotions, i cant bear this illness much longer, i so so want to get better as do you, please keep in contact with me ann it would make me get through this a lot easier. thankyou so much. toni
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Hi Toni, Me again. Does your employer currently pay you sick pay? I only know the rules for the UK, so I am sorry if you dont live here. The rules in the UK are that if you have paid National Insurance contributions for the last 2 years then you should qualify for Incapacity Benefit. Hope this has been of some use. Ann
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I AM CURRENTLY OFF WORK DUE TO MY ILLNESS, ANXIETY DEPRESSION AND PANIC ATTACKS. I CANT SEE MYSELF GOING BACK AS I JUST CANT FACE IT, MY PANIC ATTACKS AND ANXIETY ARE REALLY BAD AT WORK. I CANT AFFORD TO STAY OFF CONSTANTLY I WORK PART TIME BUT IF I DONT GO BACK WILL I BE ABLE TO CLAIM INCAPACITY, DOES ANY ONE KNOW. THANKS TONI

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