You probably won't get a lot of sympathy from this group, but please don't let that discourage you. The majority of us here tend to middle-income, middle of the road and in the midst of a mid-life crisis. We are also slightly overweight!
[i]Middle age is when broadness of the mind and narrowness of the waist change places.[/i]
But, we sure are fun!!! :)
Seriously, wishing you the best! :)