I wrote a bit under the other topic and I won't repeat, but I'm hanging in there. Yesterday and today were better and I've had some clarity recently. I'm really hoping that I can keep that clarity long enough so that I can keep it in my head even when I become negative and it gets harder again. The bad part is that I know it will come again and at the worst possible time. Oh well, such is my life and I must continue on.
Let me know how things go with your compromises and hang in there!
I'm doing much better today. Just hanging in there hoping that I can figure out a way to make things better between me and my husband. I'm also deciding to let go of a few things and it's making things easier to bear.
I don't know what I'd do without your replies. My husband has softened somewhat since our talk and I realize that I must continue to fight my urge to self destruct.
I can't tell you how glad I am to have found this site! I've written that before but it truly allows me to vent and get some feedback at the same time. I haven't moved on in the sessions, mainly because I really need to work on challenging my negative thoughts a little longer. Identifying pleasant things is difficult right now, but I have kept going to the gym. It has been a real good thing for me and was my husband's idea. He does try to look out for me and isn't as hard hearted as he comes off when I'm venting. It's just that the problems just kind of happened over a period of time and the remedy will also take time. So I'm doing a little better than earlier today.
Thank you both for taking the time to reply and take care
Sounds like you and your husband are at least communicating with each other.It is a good start. I am sorry to hear it is so rough for you atm. Hang in there, this too shall pass! And remember you can come on here and vent anytime! We are here for you!
