As a child to an adult I don't know if my words would count as anything, but I will try to help. I have seen, and heard alot of many things, and I do try to help. My family, and I are having problems too. So my suggestion to you is go to a therapist. Trust me I used to totaly neglect them, I thought it would never work, but look for one that will liscen, that will help. I don't know if I did help, but I really hope your situation goes well.
